If you don't accept your past in its entirety you are inaffect lying to
yourself.
This causes a whole range of problems ranging from Truth based conflicts
through to denial.
If you blame yourself because of the past you will have a blaming
mentality.
This causes you to continuously blame.
The fear of the truth creates denial.
Denial exists purely to divert the truth. Although the truth remains the
person
that has the fear of the truth will continue to be defiant to that truth
due to the fear
that the truth will cause the mind to assess all the untruths that exist
in the mind.
Including "unaccepted events"
With denial of the truth one will also create an escape mentality. This
will be anything
that can divert the persons mind away from the reality they are in.
ANYTHING.
If a truth based conflict exists one will never be sure of the facts.
This contributes to
a lack of self belief.
If the fear of the truth is not believed the "fear still
exists".